Have you ever thought that the doctor wasn’t listening to
you? Didn’t seem to understand what was important to you? Was talking in
medical speak but not in a language you could understand? That he or she gave
bad news to you and left you hanging as to what to do next? Unfortunately,
these are all too common.
Medical advances such as new drugs, imaging devices,
operating room technology and others are coming rapidly and greatly expanding
what can be done for patients. But concurrently it also seems to many that
medicine is so technologically focused that the age old art of humanism has
become a legend. What the doctor needs to remember is that you are a human with
the needs of a human; the doctor needs humanism.
The University of Maryland
Center for Integrative Medicine hosted a “Health and Wellness Conference”
recently to celebrate the Center’s 20
th anniversary. One plenary
session was given by Thomas Scalea, MD, professor and director of the
R Adams Cowley Shock Trauma Center at
the
University of Maryland Medical Center in
Baltimore. The
Shock Trauma
Center is arguably the
best trauma center in the country if not the world. It admits only those 3-5%
of trauma patients with the most extensive injury yet survival consistently
exceeds 95-97%. Credit this to the State’s emergency transportation system and
the Shock Trauma Center’s exquisite teamwork, the well trained staff and the
best of technology. As Dr. Scalea noted, the Shock Trauma Center is perhaps the
zenith of technologic prowess.
But, he reminded the audience that the patient also needs
the provider to be humanistic. He gave some examples. Here are some that I
remember from his talk, sprinkled occasionally with my own thoughts.
When you enter the room, sit down and talk with your
patient. Be at their eye level, not an imposing figure hovering over the bed.
Speak to the patient in clear English; not in medical speak.
Medical speak is for your convenience and is a way of obfuscating but not
communicating.
Expect to repeat what you say tomorrow and again the next
day again; your patient needs to hear it repeatedly. Don’t be annoyed they
forgot it all by tomorrow morning.
If you have bad news to deliver hold the patient’s hand.
Touch has a lot of power. I would add here, when you must give bad news, be
clear. The patient has already guessed his situation so don’t try to avoid the
truth and be sure to then immediately explain what you propose as next steps. As
a medical oncologist, I learned that this was absolutely essential. Don’t let
this part wait for another day. Your patient needs to hear it right now so they
can begin to focus not just on the bad news but on the hope of a new treatment or
whatever plans you propose for the future, even if that means hospice.
When you visit your patient don’t just talk, listen. Listen
hard and long. Dr. Scalea described a trainee getting behind him and looking
across his shoulder at the patient. When Dr. Scalea asked why he took that
position, the resident responded that he wanted to see what Dr. Scalea saw. “I’m
not looking, I’m listening” was the answer. Of course, “listening” also
includes observing the patient’s body language including facial movements.
Be sure what you tell the patient or family is clear. It
needs to be in direct every day speech. He told of going to tell a mother that
her son had died. The resident who had been working with him asked if he could
be the one to deliver the bad news. “Sure, I’ll just sit to the side.” The
resident used a lot of words about how injured her son had been, how they had
tried to save him in the operating room, etc. and then stood up to leave. “Wait,” said Dr. Scalea. He
went over, sat down, and holding her two hands said, “Do you realize that your
son has died?” She had not. It is critical to be clear.
He described a scene at a famous hospital. The world renowned
doctor and his retinue came into the patient’s room. He explained to the man
that he needed a heart valve replacement. The patient thanked him and said he
needed to talk to his doctor before agreeing to the surgery. The expert was
clearly annoyed that his word was not sufficient. “What is your doctor’s
name?” “Dr. Hamilton.” “What is his
phone number?” “I don’t know.” “Well how can I call him?” the physician sort of
growled. “Well he’s right here in the room – right over there.” He was the
third year medical student, the only one on the team that until now had taken
the time to really talk to the patient. The expert and his retinue left. The
student remained behind. The surgery was soon scheduled for the next day.
Finally I would add that being a doctor is a privilege. We
are given that privilege as a result of our medical school and residency
training and our willingness to put patient care above everything else. It is a
special privilege. We need to always remember that it is a privilege given to
us by the patient – each and every time we have an encounter. It is a privilege
that the patient can chose to retract.
1 comment:
New, and old, doctors should be required to pass a written exam on your recommendations.
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